Bed & Breakfast Weddings: Top Tips, Do’s & Don’ts
A bed and breakfast can work well for a small wedding, but an accommodation booking does not automatically allow a ceremony or extra visitors. This guide covers the questions to ask the owner and how KISS services can fit into your plans.
Top 10 Tips for Booking a Bed & Breakfast for Your Wedding:
1. Early Planning:
To secure your desired wedding date, it is important to start your wedding preparations well in advance. Early planning ensures that you have the flexibility to choose from the best available options and reduces the chances of scheduling conflicts.
2. On-Site Visit:
While scheduling a personal visit to the bed and breakfast to assess if it’s ideal for you, please note that bed and breakfasts may not always accommodate visits. Most likely not possible, due to high demand in bookings or remote management. It’s advisable to inquire about visitation policies when making your initial inquiries.
3. Intimate Guest List:
One of the advantages of a bed and breakfast wedding is the opportunity for an intimate gathering. These venues are tailor-made for smaller, close-knit weddings. Elopements, in particular, align perfectly with this style. However, if you plan to invite a larger group, we have alternative solutions to accommodate your needs.
4. Accommodation Check:
It’s essential to verify that the bed and breakfast can comfortably accommodate your guests, especially if they plan to stay on-site. Or explore nearby accommodation options as many popular locations offer a variety of choices to cater to your guests’ preferences.
5. Policy Review:
Familiarize yourself with the bed and breakfast’s policies concerning catering, decorations, and event duration. Clear communication and adherence to these policies are key to a smooth and enjoyable wedding day. Keep your guests and wedding suppliers informed about these policies to ensure a harmonious celebration.
6. Outdoor Options:
Weather permitting, consider utilizing outdoor spaces for your wedding ceremony. Look for locations with beautiful settings or charming gardens that can serve as a picturesque backdrop for your special day. Outdoor ceremonies can add a touch of natural beauty to your wedding.
7. Local Vendor Support:
Supporting local vendors for catering, flowers, hair & makeup is not only a great way to enhance your bed and breakfast wedding experience but also an opportunity to contribute to the local community. Research and collaborate with local businesses to make your wedding uniquely memorable.
8. Transportation Arrangements:
Organize transportation for your guests, especially if your chosen B&B is in a remote location. This ensures that your guests can comfortably reach the venue and return safely, contributing to a worry-free celebration.
9. Backup Plan:
Being prepared for unexpected weather or unforeseen circumstances is crucial. Many bed and breakfasts offer beautifully decorated indoor spaces that are perfect for intimate weddings, serving as an ideal backup option if the weather doesn’t cooperate or other unexpected challenges arise.
10. Styling:
Given that B&Bs are typically styled with charming interiors, consider incorporating this existing beauty into your wedding styling. Alternatively, opt for a simpler decor scheme that complements the venue’s ambiance. Our skilled stylist at KISS PACKAGE can assist in bringing your vision to life, whether it’s enhancing the existing charm or creating a bespoke atmosphere.
Do’s and Dont’s:
Embrace Intimacy:
Bed and breakfasts are uniquely suited for smaller, intimate weddings that prioritize close relationships and personal connections.
Respect the Property:
It’s essential to treat the bed and breakfast and its surroundings with care, showing respect to both the property itself and its neighboring community.
Clear Communication:
Keep the B&B owner informed about your guest numbers, suppliers, setup and timing. Confirm the agreed arrangements in writing.
Avoid Overcrowding:
Adhere to the bed and breakfast’s capacity limits to ensure the comfort of all guests and the overall success of your event.
Underestimate Planning:
Even for smaller weddings, comprehensive planning is indispensable. Enlisting our KISS services can alleviate stress and ensure a well-organized event.
Disrupt the Peace:
Keep in mind that bed and breakfasts often have nearby neighbors. Therefore, it’s crucial to avoid late-night noise disturbances and maintain a respectful atmosphere throughout the celebration.
Why Choose Our KISS PACKAGE Micro Weddings & Elopements:
Our KISS PACKAGE is thoughtfully designed to cater specifically to bed and breakfast weddings and elopements, offering a range of unique advantages:
Tailored for Intimacy:
Our packages are designed for small weddings, with the services and guest arrangements confirmed for your booking.
Effortless Planning:
We coordinate the services included in your KISS booking. Agree on who is responsible for accommodation, venue hire and other suppliers so nothing is missed.
Places to consider
Explore the accommodation options below, then confirm that the owner permits your proposed ceremony, visitors and suppliers. The right choice will depend on your guest numbers and the way you want the day to run.
Privacy and Tranquility:
Elopements, a highlight of our packages, are exceptionally well-suited for bed and breakfast weddings. They enable you to bask in the serenity of the venue without disrupting nearby neighbors, ensuring an undisturbed and tranquil celebration.
“Kangaroo Island – Wild side Retreat “
We have the most amazing elopement package on the island, the photos don’t do it justice! You can click on the link below for full details. The true Destination Wedding to Kangaroo Island in South Australia.
“CABN Off-Grid Kuitpo Forest”
There are three CABN stays among the pines of Kuitpo Forest, less than an hour’s drive from Adelaide. Check current accommodation and wedding arrangements directly before booking.
Kuitpo Forest truly allows you to choose your own adventure. Enjoy numerous walking and biking trails, explore nearby wineries or try some forest bathing. Known in Japan as shinrin yoku, the simple method of being calm and quiet amongst trees, observing the nature around you while breathing deeply helps de-stress and boost health and wellbeing in a natural way.
Additional Recommendations:
If our list of KISS Bed & Breakfasts doesn’t perfectly align with your vision, consider these additional recommendations:
Rural Retreats:
For those seeking a more remote location with the option for late-night festivities, explore bed and breakfasts in rural areas. These settings can provide a unique backdrop for your wedding and offer the flexibility for nighttime celebrations.
Permission Matters:
If you plan to host late-night parties or events, ensure that you have the owner’s permission, especially in rural or secluded locations. Respecting the rules and guidelines of the venue is essential to maintaining a harmonious relationship with the property and its neighbors.
Before you book
Planning a bed and breakfast wedding offers a unique charm and intimacy that few other venues can match. By following our comprehensive tips and guidelines, exploring our KISS PACKAGE, and consistently respecting the property and its neighbors, you’ll create a memorable and harmonious celebration for your dream bed and breakfast wedding. Your special day awaits, filled with warmth, beauty, and cherished moments.
