Glenelg Beach elopement: Council Rules & Permits

Glenelg Beach elopement: Council Rules & Permits

by | Sep 25, 2024 | Beach Weddings, elopement & micro wedding advice, Elopements, Uncategorized, Wedding Advice, wedding blog, Wedding Locations

Glenelg’s shoreline offers a coastal setting for a small wedding, with places nearby for photographs and a meal. Before you settle on a spot, make the location arrangements part of your planning.

A couple walking along Glenelg beach
A real KISS wedding at Glenelg.

Start with the exact location

A beach, foreshore reserve and nearby park can have different booking arrangements. Send the City of Holdfast Bay the exact place you have in mind, your date, setup and pack-down times, and total numbers including suppliers.

Confirm permits and permission

Ask Council to confirm the current permit or notification process, any fee and the conditions for your proposed ceremony. Do not assume that a small wedding is automatically exempt, or that a public space can be reserved for exclusive use.

Use the Holdfast Bay council wedding guide or Council’s official website to start your enquiry.

Describe your ceremony setup

List the chairs, signing table, arbour, music and other equipment you want to bring. Ask about placement, anchoring, access, supplier vehicles and anything you must remove afterwards. The written response should cover your actual setup.

Plan for guests and the weather

Walk the route from parking to the proposed ceremony position. Check steps, sand, toilets and the needs of anyone who may find the approach difficult. Discuss wind, tide timing and a practical alternative location with your celebrant and photographer.

Keep photography and the ceremony connected

A short walk between the ceremony and photo locations can keep the day relaxed. Leave time for your guests to move comfortably and confirm any photography requirements with the relevant land manager.

Bring the arrangements together

Once the location conditions are clear, KISS can help you choose celebrant, photography and styling services for your day. Confirm the selected services and any location costs in your written quote.

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Choosing the Perfect Wedding Flowers

Choosing the Perfect Wedding Flowers

by | Sep 12, 2024 | elopement & micro wedding advice, Elopements, Micro Weddings, Uncategorized, wedding blog

Wedding flowers

For a small wedding, your flowers can be as simple as one bouquet or a few arrangements. Choose what suits your ceremony, setting and budget.

White and green bouquet with native flowers and trailing ribbon

Ultimately, the decision to include flowers or not is up to you. If you love the idea of having flowers, it can be a beautiful and romantic addition to your elopement or micro wedding.

However, if flowers aren’t your thing or don’t fit with the style or theme you have in mind, there’s no need to feel obligated to include them.

Once you’ve decided that you want flowers, the next step is to figure out what kind of flowers you want and how you want to incorporate them into your celebration.

 

A couple holding hands beside a colourful wedding bouquet

Think About Your Bouquet

Your bridal bouquet is one of the most important flowers of the day, so it’s essential to choose flowers that reflect your style and personality.

Consider the shape of your bouquet, too—do you prefer a round, traditional bouquet, or something more organic and asymmetrical?

It’s also important to think about the size of your bouquet. A small, delicate bouquet might be perfect for an elopement or intimate micro wedding, while a larger, more elaborate bouquet might be better suited to a bigger celebration.

 

Close-up of a native flower bridal bouquet

Don’t Forget the Other Flowers

While your bouquet is undoubtedly the star of the show, don’t forget about the other flowers you’ll need for your micro wedding or elopement.

You might consider floral arrangements for your ceremony arch, centrepieces for your reception table, and boutonnieres for the groom and groomsmen.

It’s essential to choose flowers that work well together and complement your overall colour palette and style. You might choose a mix of blooms and greenery for a wild, organic look, or stick to a single type of flower for a more minimalist approach.

 

A wedding couple smiling towards their celebrant

Consult with a Florist

Finally, if you’re feeling overwhelmed by the flower selection process or unsure of where to start, consider consulting with a professional florist. A skilled florist will be able to guide you through the process, offering advice on what flowers are in season, what will work well in your location, and how to create a cohesive look.

 

Pink and cream wedding bouquet with foliage
A bride holding a colourful bouquet with trailing ribbon

Whether or not you need flowers for your elopement or micro wedding depends on your personal preferences and the overall aesthetic you are going for. If you want to incorporate flowers into your ceremony or reception, there are a few different ways to do so.

You could carry a bouquet, wear a floral crown or boutonniere, or incorporate floral arrangements into your decor. Alternatively, you could opt for non-floral decor, such as candles, greenery, or other decorative elements.

 

Native wedding bouquet with banksias, proteas and foliage

Consider the Season and Location

The first step in selecting your micro wedding or elopement flowers is to consider the season and location. Different flowers are available throughout the year, and choosing flowers that are in season can help you save money and ensure the freshest blooms.

Some popular Australian wedding flowers include roses, orchids, peonies, dahlias, and native blooms like banksia and kangaroo paw.

The location of your wedding can also influence your flower selection. If you’re getting married on a beach, you might consider tropical flowers like hibiscus or frangipani. If you’re tying the knot in a garden, you might choose a mix of wildflowers and greenery.

 

White orchid wedding bouquet with trailing ribbon

Decide on a Colour Palette

Once you have an idea of what flowers are in season and what will work well in your wedding location, it’s time to decide on a colour palette. Choosing a colour palette will help you create a cohesive look throughout your wedding, from the flowers to the bridesmaids’ dresses and table settings.

You might choose colours that reflect the season, such as warm oranges and yellows for autumn or soft pastels for spring.

Alternatively, you might choose colors that complement your wedding theme or location, such as blues and greens for a beach wedding or bold, bright hues for a modern city elopement.

 

Bright mixed wedding bouquet with pink and orange flowers

Start with your season, location and colour preferences, then talk with a florist about what is available. They can help you choose flowers that work for your budget and the conditions on the day.

Congratulations and best of luck with a professional florist. A skilled florist will be able to guide you through the process, offering advice on what flowers are in season, what will work well in your location, and how to create a cohesive look.

 

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Marry Now, Party Later

Marry Now, Party Later

by | Aug 20, 2024 | elopement & micro wedding advice, Elopements, Micro Weddings, Uncategorized, Wedding Advice, wedding blog, Wedding Ceremony

In recent years, the phrase “Marry Now, Party Later” has become a rallying cry for couples eager to tie the knot without delay, yet unwilling to forgo a grand celebration. This trend, driven by both necessity and choice, has redefined the traditional wedding timeline, offering a blend of intimacy and anticipation that resonates with modern couples.

A bride and groom smiling together beside the sea

The Appeal of Marry Now, Party Later

The “Marry Now, Party Later” approach appeals to couples for several reasons:

A couple holding hands during their coastal wedding ceremony in black and white

Flexibility in Timing: Life doesn’t always align with our plans. Whether due to global events, personal circumstances, or simply a desire to be married sooner, many couples choose to exchange vows now and save the larger celebration for a later date.

Intimacy of Elopements and Micro Weddings: For many, the idea of an intimate ceremony is appealing. Fewer guests allow the couple to focus on the significance of the day without the pressures of hosting a large event. The immediate circle of family and friends present makes the moment even more special and personal.

A couple exchanging vows on the coast at Port Willunga
A couple exchanging rings beside the sea in black and white

Financial Benefits: Splitting the wedding into two events can ease financial pressures. Couples can have a modest ceremony now and save up for a more extravagant celebration when they’re ready.

Creative Freedom: With the pressure of a traditional timeline removed, couples have the freedom to plan a celebration that truly reflects their personalities. The party can be held at a unique venue, incorporate new trends, or even be a themed event that might not have been possible under traditional wedding constraints.

A wedding couple smiling at each other beside the sea

Planning a Marry Now, Party Later Wedding

If this approach suits you, start with these practical steps:

A small cliffside wedding ceremony in black and white

Choose the ceremony style: You might prefer a legals-only ceremony, an elopement or a micro wedding with a small group. Compare the KISS Package options and choose the services that suit your plans.

Communicate with Your Guests: Let your loved ones know your plan. Send out announcements for your “Marry Now” event and provide a “Save the Date” for the upcoming party. This way, they can look forward to celebrating with you later.

A bride and groom smiling together beside the sea
A wedding couple watching the sunset from the beach

Capture the Moment: Hire a photographer or videographer to document your intimate ceremony. These memories will be a great addition to the larger celebration later on.

Plan the Party with Intention: When the time comes to plan your celebration, think about what you want it to represent. Whether it’s a casual gathering or a grand affair, ensure it complements the journey you’ve been on as a couple.

A wedding couple walking along the wet sand beneath coastal cliffs
Bride and groom walking along the sand at Port Willunga

The Emotional Impact

One of the most beautiful aspects of the “Marry Now, Party Later” trend is the opportunity for couples to reflect on their journey between the two events. By the time the celebration rolls around, the couple has had time to deepen their bond and share their married life with family and friends. The party becomes not just a celebration of the wedding day, but of the marriage itself.

Marrying now and celebrating later lets you separate the ceremony from the party. Agree on what you want from each part, including who will attend and what you are comfortable spending.

The party can always wait.

A couple celebrating with a bottle beside the coast

Explore our elopement & micro wedding packages and preferred suppliers, or ask us about the services you need for your ceremony. You can make separate plans for a later celebration.

Backup Plans for Outdoor Ceremonies in Public Spaces

Backup Plans for Outdoor Ceremonies in Public Spaces

by | Jul 29, 2024 | Beach Weddings, elopement & micro wedding advice, Elopements, Forest Weddings, Garden Weddings, Micro Weddings, Uncategorized, Wedding Advice, wedding blog

Planning for the Unexpected:

An outdoor wedding at Kuitpo Forest or Port Willunga Beach needs a workable backup plan. Decide what you will do if it rains, becomes too hot or windy, or the location closes, and make sure your guests and suppliers know the plan.

A small indoor wedding ceremony at Thorngrove Manor

Thorngrove Manor Elopement, Adelaide Hills

Why You Need a Backup Plan

Public spaces are not equipped with the same amenities as traditional venues. While they offer natural beauty and charm, they lack the infrastructure to protect against inclement weather. Here’s why having a backup plan is crucial:

  1. Weather Variability: Rain, wind, and extreme temperatures can all pose challenges to an outdoor ceremony.
  2. Guest Comfort: Ensuring the comfort of your guests is essential, and bad weather can significantly impact their experience.
  3. Logistical Concerns: Public spaces often don’t provide the logistical support needed for sudden changes in the event setting.

A wedding couple standing on an ocean-view accommodation deck

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Crafting the Perfect Backup Plan

A well-thought-out backup plan will give you peace of mind and ensure your wedding day is beautiful, regardless of the weather. Here are some strategies to consider:

  1. Assess the Guest Count:
    • Small Gatherings: If your wedding is intimate and involves a small number of guests, consider booking a local bed and breakfast (B&B) as a backup. Many B&Bs offer charming, cozy environments that can easily accommodate a small ceremony.
    • Larger Gatherings: For more significant events, look into renting a nearby community hall. These spaces are often affordable and can be decorated to match your wedding theme.
  2. Utilise Nearby Shelters:
    • For beach weddings, investigate the availability of beach shelters. These structures can provide immediate cover in case of sudden rain or strong winds.
  3. Reception Venues:
    • If you have a separate reception venue, check if it can be arranged to host the ceremony in case of bad weather. Many reception venues have flexible spaces that can be quickly adapted for a ceremony.
  4. Family Homes:
    • Consider using a family home as a backup location. If a family member lives close to your chosen public space, their home can provide a convenient and intimate setting.
  5. Timing and Season:
    • Plan your wedding date carefully. Opting for a summer date can reduce the likelihood of rain, though be mindful of extreme heat. Spring and autumn can offer milder weather but come with their own risks.
  6. Rental Tents:
    • Renting a tent can be a great way to keep the outdoor feel while providing shelter. Many rental companies offer elegant tents that can be set up in various public spaces.

A wedding couple sitting together beside their bouquet and marriage register

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The Advantages of Elopements and Micro Weddings

This is why elopements and micro-weddings are great options. Their smaller scale makes it much easier to quickly change plans if needed and offers more flexibility in choosing backup locations. With fewer guests, relocating to an indoor setting or adapting your ceremony on the fly becomes a breeze, ensuring your special day remains stress-free and enjoyable.

Communicating the Plan

Make sure your guests are aware of the backup plan. Include details on your wedding website or in your invitations about what to expect if the weather changes. Clear communication will ensure everyone knows where to go and what to do, reducing stress on the big day.

Final Thoughts

While the allure of an outdoor wedding in a public space is undeniable, being prepared for any weather scenario is essential. By having a well-thought-out backup plan, you can relax and enjoy your special day, knowing that you’ve covered all bases. Whether the sun is shining or the rain is pouring, your wedding day will be memorable and beautiful.

– Glenn & The KISS team x

 

Red String Wedding Ceremony

Red String Wedding Ceremony

by | Jul 17, 2024 | wedding blog, Wedding Ceremony

The Red String Wedding Ceremony: A Beautiful Fusion of Eastern and Western Traditions

In Asian culture, the colour red symbolizes happiness and joy. One of the most enchanting beliefs associated with this vibrant hue is the Red Thread of Fate, also known as the red string of marriage. This ancient legend holds a special place in the hearts of many, symbolising a deep and unbreakable connection between destined lovers.

Close-up of red string being tied around a couple's hands

Red String Wedding Ceremony

The Legend of the Red Thread of Fate

Originating from Asian folklore, the Red Thread of Fate suggests that the gods tie an invisible red cord around the finger or ankle of those who are destined to meet and become one another’s true love. The deity responsible for this mystical thread is believed to be the old lunar matchmaker God, revered as the orchestrator of marriages.

Destined Love Across Time and Space

According to the legend, the two people connected by the red thread are fated to be lovers, no matter the distance, time, or circumstances that may come between them. This magical cord, although it may stretch or tangle, is unbreakable. The myth bears a striking resemblance to the Western concept of soulmates and evokes the imagery of an old English Handfasting ceremony.

Incorporating the Red String Ceremony in Modern Weddings

In contemporary times, the Red String Ceremony has found a unique place in wedding rituals, often depicted with the thread being tied around the fingers, typically the little finger, during a legal wedding ceremony. This beautiful tradition allows couples to blend Western and Eastern wedding customs, creating a meaningful and symbolic ritual.

By including the Red String Ceremony, couples can honor this age-old legend while celebrating their unique love story. It’s a wonderful way to embrace cultural diversity and add a touch of magic to the wedding ceremony, symbolizing the unbreakable bond between two souls destined to be together.

A couple holding hands during a red string wedding ceremony

Red String Wedding Ceremony

Creating a Memorable Ritual

For couples seeking to incorporate this beautiful tradition into their wedding, consider the following ideas:

  • Ceremony Script: Work with your celebrant to create a personalized script that explains the significance of the red thread and its cultural origins.
  • Red String Exchange: During the ceremony, exchange red strings with your partner, tying them around each other’s little fingers as a symbol of your eternal connection.
  • Photographic Moments: Capture the moment with a special photograph that highlights the red strings, creating a lasting memory of this meaningful ritual.

If a Red String Ceremony feels meaningful to you, discuss how to include it respectfully with your celebrant.

Prepared with KISS celebrant Deborah Lilley. Talk with Deb about the meaning of the Red String Ceremony and how it could fit into your wedding. www.lilley-cmc.com

A celebrant tying red string around a couple's hands

Red String Wedding Ceremony

A couple taking part in a red string wedding ceremony

Red String Wedding Ceremony

Wedding Seating Tips

Wedding Seating Tips

by | May 4, 2024 | elopement & micro wedding advice, Elopements, Micro Weddings, Uncategorized, Wedding Advice, wedding blog

A couple holding hands during their wedding ceremony

Choosing Your Side: A Guide to Outdoor Wedding Seating

Bride on the right or left?

what if two brides or two grooms? 

Firstly, let’s talk about the wind.

For an outdoor ceremony, consider the wind before choosing which side to stand on.

Yes, that breeze can be a real game-changer. If you’ve been to an outdoor wedding, you know the struggle of keeping your hair in place while the wind decides to do its thing. To avoid having your veil in your face or blocking your guests’ view, think about the wind direction when choosing where to stand.

The fix? Position the person with the longest hair so they’re facing into the wind. It might take a little planning and tweaking of the setup, but it’s worth it to keep everything looking and feeling just right on your big day.

Guests watching two grooms beneath an outdoor wedding arbour

Choosing wedding ceremony seating

Now, let’s talk about personal preference.

While the wind direction is crucial for practical reasons, there’s also the matter of personal comfort and preference. Do you have a “good side” that you prefer to be photographed from? Or perhaps you have a particular angle that makes you feel most confident? Whatever the case may be, don’t be afraid to take your personal preferences into account when choosing your side at the ceremony. It’s your special day, and you deserve to feel comfortable and radiant from every angle.

Think about your hairstyle and any hair accessories when choosing a side. Your photographer can help you find a position that shows them clearly and keeps hair out of your face.

Last but certainly not least, let’s talk about family.

Traditionally, your family sits on your side, but consider giving them a prime spot opposite you and your partner so they can see your faces clearly during the ceremony. This way, you can see their faces and they can see yours—not just the back of your head. Their smiles, tears, and expressions of joy will add an extra layer of love and warmth to the occasion.

For same-sex couples.

If you are both walking in, or using a different entrance, plan where each of you will stand and what your families will be able to see. Walk through the arrangement with your celebrant before guests arrive.

Check the wind, light, hairstyle and your families’ view when planning where to stand. A quick walk-through with your celebrant and photographer can help you choose a comfortable arrangement.

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